What This Does

Your attention is a resource. Everyone wants a piece of it. The news. Social media. That relative who won't stop sending you YouTube videos. The outrage machine that profits from keeping you activated 24/7.

Setting boundaries isn't about checking out. It's about being intentional with your limited capacity. You can't fight for anything if you've given yourself away to everything.

Talk through your situation and get help with:

Set Your Limits

What's getting through that shouldn't be?

Let's talk about what's draining you. Where is your energy leaking?

Is it...

📱 Social media - doom-scrolling, outrage algorithms, toxic comments?

📺 News consumption - can't stop checking, 24/7 cable news, push notifications?

👥 People - relatives, coworkers, friends who drain you with political arguments?

🧠 Your own brain - can't stop thinking about it, intrusive thoughts, anxiety spirals?

What's the biggest drain right now?

Boundary Ideas

The Two-Check Rule

Check news twice a day at set times. Morning and evening. That's it. You'll still know what's happening. You won't miss anything that actually affects your life.

Mute Liberally

Muting isn't unfriending. They won't know. You can still check their page if you want. But their stuff won't show up uninvited. Use this power freely.

Curate Ruthlessly

Your feed is not a democracy. Unfollow accounts that make you feel worse. Follow ones that inform without destroying you. You control this.

No Phones in Bed

The last thing you see before sleep and first thing in the morning shouldn't be the news. Give yourself bookends of peace.

The Redirect

"I can't talk about politics right now" is a complete sentence. You don't have to explain. You don't have to debate. You can just... not.

Notification Purge

Turn off news notifications. If something is important enough, you'll hear about it. The push notification isn't serving you. It's serving them.